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| bohemianbabe |
 Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 7:41 pm |
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I've spent a long long time getting to know different people and then having them pulled away from me. It is what happens when you live in a military town like i do. it is also what happens when you leave a church to go to another one as we hve done.
many years ago i met a girl named brit. she and i had clashed at first but had gotten to be friends of a sort. we joked and laughed together, but never really got that seriously involved. i never realy knew much about her home life and she never really knew much about mine. then she and i were separated when my parents decided that we were going to change churches.......that was six and a half years ago.
about a month ago this new guy started to work at the same place that i do. he and i have never really had much to talk about so we dont really know that much about each other (excpet for my mohters crazy rules). hte ohter day he mentioned that two friends of a friend of his had died in a car wrek.....and from what the others who knew of the car wrek told me it had been pretty grusome....
yesterday i was doing some work for my mohter when she came out and asked me if i had remembered a girl......she read me a name and things started to come back to me....beyond that she told me how the girl had died, and i realized that the girl's death that i had ignored had actualy been the death of one of my old friends.
if i've learned anything from it i've learned that you can't let situations ruin the friendships that you have.i love you all and i never want to have to hear someting about one of you and have not been in contact for that long
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| PsiGen |
| Posted: Mon Jan 09, 2006 8:28 pm |
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Don't feel guilty for not recognising her by name or sight. The important thing is that you recognised her with your heart, and you looked back at the memories you shared together with love and a smile.
Friendships come and go in physicality, but the strongest bonds never totally severe themselves, even if we cannot recall a name or a face.
I'm sure you miss her very much. I'm sure she missed you very much too - but Im equally sure she looked back at those memories you shared together too... and with a smile as well.
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| bohemianbabe |
| Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 12:50 am |
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thanks hon, you make me feel better about this.
i still feel a bit guilty that it doesnt hurt so much, but i guess that is because it had been 6 years since i'd seen here, and nearly the same lenght of time since i had really thought about her
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| PsiGen |
| Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2006 8:32 pm |
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But you didnt forget her. You remembered her when you found out and thats what counts in the end.
I've seen alot of people lose people and animals they care about, but when it comes down to it... times, dates and places dont matter. What you feel does.
You miss your friend even though its been 6 years. You care. You've nothing to feel guilty for - what I find helps some people ... is to go out and get a flower - something that reminds you of the person you've lost... and then cast it into a river or something and tell that person you miss them but will always remember them.
I did this when my aunt died and it helped. I hadnt seen her for over 12 years, but I missed her. It's the true definiton of being human. Our compassion and our love.
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| Lexa Pierce |
| Posted: Mon Jan 16, 2006 7:11 pm |
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awwww  so sorry chica! That's sad and no feel guilty about it. Not your fault, cant remember everyone especially when you move away from them. You remember her and thats the best thing |
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| Blackpanther |
| Posted: Tue Jan 17, 2006 5:21 pm |
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| darkanger4u |
| Posted: Sat Jul 01, 2006 5:13 pm |
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Well I am sure that is not your fault...I am sure that if you ever had got the chance to say Good Bye to her you would have done it...It's not your faul,you kno it and she knows it too!
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